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Important Thoughts on Mentoring
Mentoring is defined by the nature and intention of a relationship, rather than the specific behaviors within it. While a mentor has unique attributes that define the role, this role is familiar to us and we can identify people we feel are or have been a mentor to us. Additionally, we regularly perform this role for others, often without appreciating that. An active mentor relationship has typical attributes that work together to create a foundation for success.
As you mentor someone else, your effective choices or responses are supported by a set of guiding principles. Mentors come in different shapes and guises and yet share the same tendencies and abilities. An active mentor relationship (or assignment) is supported by the idea of a process or journey, i.e. an experience with a beginning, middle and end. During the journey of any mentor, there are pitfalls (or risks) that the mentor must avoid along the way.
By staying aware of these potential pitfalls, you can avoid them or respond constructively as they arise. As with any potential risk, you need a balanced approach (to avoid creating an issue where none actually exists). It’s a good idea to check back over the list of pitfalls occasionally, or use reflection techniques to maintain self-awareness.
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Pitfalls to Avoid in Mentoring
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Let’s look at some natural barriers or blocks on your own journey towards becoming an effective mentor for others. Pitfalls could be things that you might do, or not do, or habits you might fall into, which will reduce your positive impact as a mentor. Potential pitfalls might include placing yourself under too much pressure, having your own agenda, or allowing the idea of being a mentor to sug...
A Process to Support Mentoring
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There are different activities and stages that naturally occur as you mentor someone. These stages of a mentor’s involvement will be especially relevant if you view your mentor relationship as an assignment, i.e. a series of conversations with an intended duration. For example, you may agree an assignment to provide mentoring support for a period of 18 months and meet your mentee, in person, ev...
What do Good Mentors do Well?
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There are some common tendencies of great mentors, abilities they have that result in successful relationships. There are a wide-ranging examples of mentor roles, defined by intention, relationship and circumstance, rather than specific descriptions of skill, knowledge and character. Where the quality of the relationship a mentor develops is more important than their own perfection, we shift em...
Guiding Principles in Mentoring
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The relationship is a meeting of equals, even though you might often be judged more senior than your mentee. In an organizational context especially, it’s a natural feature that someone more experienced might have a more senior role, or be considered to have more status in the relationship. This creates a natural emphasis or bias towards what you think and believe as a mentor. Where your intent...
What's Different About a Mentoring Relationship?
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When we consider typical features of archetypal mentor relationships, the following themes appear consistently. In stories, a mentor character often assists with a distinct adventure or quest, during which the person they are mentoring must triumph by overcoming challenges and changing for the better. Since the idea of a journey easily translates to the on-going experience of life, where each o...
What is Mentoring?
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A mentor is someone who takes on the role of a trusted adviser, supporter, teacher and wise counsel to another person. A mentor adopts a primarily selfless role in supporting the learning, development and ultimate success of another person. Though mentors often benefit in some way from the relationship, these benefits are usually indirect and not the main motivation for mentoring. Mentoring is ...
Final Thoughts on Mentoring
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Being a mentor for someone requires us to gather what we have experienced and share it with someone else. For a mentee, the gifts of being mentored include practical assistance, learning, growth and personal support that confirms that they are both valuable and valued. When you recall how your own mentors have made you feel about yourself, you connect with the potential contribution you can mak...
A Comprehensive Summary of Mentoring
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Mentoring is defined by the nature and intention of a relationship, rather than the specific behaviors within it. While a mentor has unique attributes that define the role, this role is familiar to us and we can identify people we feel are or have been a mentor to us. Additionally, we regularly perform this role for others, often without appreciating that. An active mentor relationship has typi...
Mentors Avoid Dependency
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As a mentor, the pitfall of dependency is one you need to stay aware of and yet not become distracted by. Asking the mentee to assist in monitoring the potential issue isn’t helpful. Also, you can distract or waste time looking for issues that are not there instead of focusing on positive topics, such as the mentee’s progress. As a mentor, you can combine the potential issue of dependency with ...
Mentors Set Direction and Help
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Any one-on-one relationship presents the potential for either party (or both parties) to become dependent on each other. By becoming dependent, one party feels a sense of reliance on the other for something and would feel a sense of loss (or being uncomfortable) at the idea of not having it. It is important that you and your mentee remain independent of each other to enable the benefits of ment...
Mentors Shouldn't be Disengaged
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As an effective mentor, you aim to sustain good levels of engagement, both for yourself and your mentee. Engagement enables a successful relationship for the mentor and mentee because they can be aligned on the goals of mentoring and invested in the process of achieving them. Engagement is a combination of our intellection, how we understand something, our emotion, how we feel about it, and our...
Mentors Shouldn't Suggest Superiority
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Allowing the idea of being a mentor to suggest superiority or prestige is a pitfall. This pitfall occurs when we confuse an emphasis or focus on the mentor (because we have something the mentee wants) with superiority. This pitfall of superiority is a subtle one as it demands self-awareness from you as a mentor to spot both the tendency and the impact it is having upon your outlook and behavior...
Mentors Shouldn't have an Agenda
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This pitfall occurs when a mentor distorts the intention of providing appropriate assistance by adding their own agenda. It is natural for a mentor to want their mentee to gain positive benefit from their involvement and make progress. However, a mentor’s intention can develop into wanting something specific for them, based on their own view. A mentor’s agenda can often develop as they begin to...
Mentors Shouldn't Pressure Themselves
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An effective mentor is able to experience an appropriate amount of pressure and still react constructively in situations. An example of ‘appropriate pressure’ might be that you regard your role as important and one that you want to do well at. This positive type of pressure motivates you to function well in interactions with your mentee. While some levels of pressure are healthy and enlivening,...
Pitfalls in Mentoring
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Pitfalls in Mentoring
Concluding Mentoring
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Concluding Mentoring
Reviewing Mentoring
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Reviewing Mentoring
Maintaining Progress in Mentoring
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Maintaining Progress in Mentoring
Get started with Mentoring
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Get started with Mentoring
How much Structure is Needed in Mentoring?
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How much Structure is Needed in Mentoring?
Preparing to Mentor
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Preparing to Mentor
Organization of Mentoring
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Organization of Mentoring
Culture as a Constant
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Culture as a Constant
The Process of Mentoring
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The Process of Mentoring
Ambiguity of Culture
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Ambiguity of Culture
Mentors Help People Grow
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Mentors Help People Grow
Work and Multiple Levels of Culture
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Work and Multiple Levels of Culture
Mentors Help Overcome Barriers
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Mentors Help Overcome Barriers
Organizational Culture and Leadership
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Organizational Culture and Leadership

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